“I am going to kill you!” A rough client approached me, as he pointed his gun in my direction.
I was bringing in my massage table into the hotel room and standing in front of me was a giant of a man. He looked really tough. He didn’t look like your run of the mill Joe in ballerina tights. He didn’t need a gun to kill me. Hell, he could have just sat on me and snuffed me out! “If you kill me,” I retorted, “how can I give you a massage?
His stare went right through me and seconds passed like hours, then the silence erupted into laughter. The ice has been broken. The laughter established a connection between us, but I was still nervous. It was now up to me to pull this situation in the right direction.
I was able to calm him down enough to have him take his bullets from his gun. I proceeded to start my massage on him. As time went by, he seemed to be very happy and much more at peace. I am sure we all deal with angry people from time to time, but hopefully not to this extent.
I learned the best way to deal with anger is with honesty. Probably the best way to calm someone down is to agree with them (along as you’re honestly sincere about it). Find something you both have in common. Soon, the angry individual does not know where to turn their rage.
Their brain will think, if you are on my side, then what am I arguing about? In a short time, the anger will diffuse itself. Whatever the reason for the individual’s anger, try to be calm and don’t allow the other person’s feelings to influence you.
Allow you intuition and Angels to guide you with each situation. God’s Angels don’t want you to get hurt. Neither does God want the other person to get hurt. Always do your best to have a caring attitude. Be sympathetic. Try to understand where the angry person is coming from. Approach the delicate situation with care and love. Try different calming techniques (like breathing exercises). Remember your Angels and feel their love surrounding the circumstances.
I would not be here on earth, if it weren’t for my Mom and Dad.
I have had some great experiences with both my Dad and my Mom. They taught me a lot about life; morals, values, and being persistent and not giving up in life. I can recall an incident when I was very young. I remember both of my parents working very hard with me to help me to do my best in this life! The doctors told my parents that I would never be able to ride a bicycle. When my dad heard this he told the doctor to forget it! He will be able to ride a bike and we will teach him. With a lot of persistence and hard work from both of my parents, I did finally ride that bike.
I was born with some minimal type of brain damage, which affected my motor coordination. Doctors said I would never walk, ride a bike, dance, or do anything involving motor skills. Nothing! Both of my parents encouraged me when I was young and they worked double time with me. I made it through.
There were many nights that I was in the hospital, unable to breathe from asthma attacks. During the daytime I would go to school and then after school I would go to the Speech and Hearing Center. I did this all week long for 5 years! Well, to sum it up, when I was young I had to work extra hard just to grow and to be kind of normal. I actually never really considered myself “normal” and that's a good thing!
With God's help and determined parents, and with my will to succeed, I was able to accomplish anything that I desire. And we can all accomplish what we desired if we visualize it!!!!! Work at it and be persistent about it. In a loving way, we can do anything that we set our mind too!!
So, I am thankful to my mom and dad. I also like to thank my girlfriend “Gloria" as well as being part of my shows and putting up with me. Especially when I put the mic in her face while were in bed. Then I ask if she would like to record and make a record. Don't worry it’s generally after our passionate lovemaking session.
In fact, the funny thing was when I met her on the day I was born. She was a candy striper at the hospital in Inglewood California. Now if I knew she was there, I would have asked her out on a date that day. But apparently, I had other plans, like being born. It's ironic though; that I met my girlfriend on the day I was born. I believe a thing like this is destiny and faith in the works, or it was simply her bad timing on her behalf. She could have called in sick.
Richard Spasoff is a Comedy Show Headliner who also happens to be a Professional Psychic Medium! ~~ With a punch line!
I am a psychic medium "not psycho," and a stand-up comedian and believe it or not, a radio host/producer-actor, (IMDB) "Internet Movie Database", writer, and some other things I still don't know about yet!
(My Comedy take)
In his one-of-a-kind take on Comedy, Richard incorporates both punchlines into Psychic readings while drawing on unique real-life experiences in venues large and small! Some of these unusual experiences include: a marriage that didn’t last 30 days because the Bride woke up, being hired as a Masseuse and Psychic Medium in a Red-Light District, a local Police Academy that was never quite the same after Cadet Spasoff nearly shot an instructor accidentally, the first apartment without a door, and being hired to give massages to “wise guys” or “Goodfellas”!!
Now without further adieu. I am very excited and thankful to Joe and Katie for allowing me to produce my radio shows. Our new radio show is called “Wacky World of the Spaz” (25 minute radio show). This will be airing in September on Society Bytes Radio part of the Radio Ear Network Family.
Again, I would like to give a big heartfelt thank you to Katie and Joe. I would like to thank them for allowing me to do my radio show as part of the Ear Network family.
I am happy a part of this family. At least I'm somewhat sure they willn’t put me in cement shoes and send me to the bottom of the river. Looking forward to doing a positive messaging show, with comedy, psychic medium readings, and the heart to heart interviews with celebrities and people from all walks of life!
I spend between 20 to 40 hours worth of production for a 25-minute show. It's definitely hard work and I want to do the best that I can for our audience. In my past shows, I had over 2,000 guests. Of course, they weren’t on one show. I've been interviewing a lot of people for over 30+ years.
Being a psychic medium, I try to get to the heart of the matter with people during our interviews and readings. As a comedian, I don't like to make fun of people. That's not my style. I don't mind picking on myself, but I don’t like it! I just know when I do our show, I want to bring good energy into it and out of it. I know that whatever energy we put into the show people will feel good.
I know through God's grace and love, Our Lord and his Angels will show me how to put together an entertaining and positive messaging show for everyone. I’ve been an entertainer for 30 years. Prior, I was a psychiatric patient majoring in Thoracic Aortic Dissection Repair and basket weaving.
I want to give the audience new and interesting shows. If for some reason, I get sick and I die, I have to call each and every one of you collect from the afterlife! Please accept my toll calls?